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Valentine’s Day tips from Ms. Irene Valenti

With Valentine’s Day approaching, millions of people focus on that heart shaped holiday. What should one do for their significant other? A fancy dinner? Flowers? Jewelry? Irene Valenti has taken relationships to a whole new level, for the past 20 years. Ms. Valenti believes it’s important to differentiate those couples who have just started dating to couples who have been dating for a while. Celebrating Valentine’s Day may be premature and downright awkward for those couples just starting to date. In the case of the newly dating couple, she advises to not create any expectations. If a couple has been…
Steve Valenti
February 13, 2018

6 texts you should never send your significant other

Texting your significant other should be easy. But sometimes, all it takes is one stray ‘K’ or a message ‘read’ without a reply to start an argument. Texting may be a quick and easy way to communicate, but it lacks the ability to convey emotional tone and context. It’s critical to add an extra few words to be certain your message is not misinterpreted. Here are six things you should never say to your significant other via text. Unfortunately, it’s common sense texting etiquette that’s surprisingly uncommon. 1) Dismissive texts like ‘K,’ ‘Whatever’ or ‘NVM’ This is the proverbial middle finger text. …
Steve Valenti
January 26, 2018

10 Tips for the Perfect Companionship

Companionship is that state of being friends, a closeness or familiarity, a true connection between two people who are truly connected. Companionship can come with or without a sexual aspect, and it goes much deeper than “friends with benefits.” It lasts beyond hardship, cooled passion or the ordinariness of life. Many people are torn between companionship and romantic love because they crave passion. People who offer companionship put into the relationship their effort, concern and time. Companionship is lasting, and if it is coupled with sexual desire, can be an experience that goes far beyond erotica and into a true state…
Steve Valenti
January 22, 2018
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Why We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve

  Finding a healthy, balanced relationship is never easy, but when you doubt yourself or believe you don’t deserve true love, it can be doubly painful. The team at Valenti Matchmaking understands this and is here to help. The first step is learning to accept yourself and to believe that you do deserve a deeply meaningful and fulfilling relationship. We found this insightful article with a professional view about how to accept yourself and find the true love you deserve.   Why We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve by Nikki Martinez, Psy.D, LCPC This is a topic that…
Dr. Hernandez
January 10, 2018

She is Intelligent and fun

"We met for dinner last night and had a very nice time. She’s intelligent and fun, has a very attractive figure, is in great shape, and is very comfortable in her own skin. I liked her very much and we are going out again for dinner next week. All good!! Will keep you posted..." - Client
Elisha Libin
December 21, 2017

Why You Should Hire a Matchmaker

“My tastes are simple — I am easily satisfied with the best.”  -Winston Churchill  Successful people don’t rely on luck. They make a plan, hire the best and move toward the goal with the utmost efficiency.   Busy professionals spend every hour thinking about how to grow their success. Early mornings, late nights and fast-moving agendas leave little time for personal lives. Many matchmaking clients have not only achieved the highest echelon in professional success, but have something else in common – the desire to meet a loving companion. Does this describe you? When we think about what is truly important, the most…
Dr. Hernandez
December 8, 2017
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Matchmaking has evolved.

Searching for love in a changing world is not an easy task, but Valenti Matchmaking stands ready to help people find love. I discovered this very intriguing article about how the dating landscape has changed over time, remarkably so in the past few years. The authors of the study describe how relationships starting via family connections or community activities such as church, have gone by the wayside in favor of much more independent searches. Where the town matchmaker once introduced people, they now search on their own by going to bars or by swiping on smartphone apps. Also, the average…
Dr. Hernandez
November 17, 2017
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What It Means to Love Again After Loss

Finding love after the loss of a spouse or loved one can be an arduous journey. But it is one that with the right support and patience, can lead to a fulfilling life with the right partner! The team at Valenti Matchmaking found this personal and inspiring article by Christina Rasmussen about what to expect on the road to finding love again. What It Means to Love Again After Loss Nobody said anything about having to learn to love again after loss. And I mean really learn it again. Attempting to love again the way we used to before loss…
Dr. Hernandez
October 19, 2017

Lessons on Love From 100 American Couples

The team at Valenti Matchmaking found this insightful article that explores the wisdom gleaned from 100 loving couples. Love can be magical, but it is something that also grows and endures with loving attention. We hope that you'll enjoy these pearls of wisdom!   Lessons on Love from 100 American Couples by Melissa Joy Kong I’m a single, 20-something woman, so I should note off the bat that I don’t know much about marriage. But most young singles go into what is meant to be a lifelong commitment relatively clueless. Our perceptions of marriage often stem from some mix of…
Dr. Hernandez
October 13, 2017
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8 Ways Anxiety Can Get In The Way of Love

Living with anxiety is never easy, but when one is anxious and alone, it can be doubly painful. The team at Valenti Matchmaking understands this and is here to help. The first step is understanding why anxiety can get in the way of love. We found this insightful article with a personal view about how anxiety affects your love life. 8 Reasons Anxious People Are Afraid of Love Love is scary. It’s full of feelings that we aren’t sure how to handle. As anxious people, we have a fear of unexpected things. We like control. We want to be able…
Dr. Hernandez
August 29, 2017